Separated but not yet divorced

topic posted Fri, April 20, 2007 - 4:56 AM by  Paula
I met a man a few months back who, though he had separated from his wife 3 years ago was not yet divorced. This would not be a problem for most people but I am a Christian and it weighed heavy on my mind from the start. I have now discussed this with him and though he was a little taken aback, he seems ok. What do I do now. I feel we should go our separate ways and should our paths cross in future and the situation be different then see how things go. He wants to maintain contact, which will only end up with us seeing each other again. Am I being too 'straight down the line'? What are your thoughts?
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Paula
United Kingdom
  • Re: Separated but not yet divorced

    Fri, April 20, 2007 - 6:36 AM
    Ask yourself what do you lose by continuing a relationship with this man.

    Innocence? A pact with your God?

    Ask yourself what you lose by NOT continuing a relationship with this man.

    Which is worse?


    GaryQ

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